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Friday Links: Netherfield, Parisian Kale, Salted Chocolate, and Hay Hooks

January 18th, 2013

Netherfield Ball +200: The BBC is staging a re-creating an entire Regency ball – to mark the 200th anniversary of Pride And Prejudice.
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I have always been enamored of the mannered domesticity in Miss Austen’s novels.  In a 90-minute special, experts will re-stage the planning and rehearsals for an early 19th century ball, as well as looking back at the first-hand testimony of ball-goers of the time.  It will end with an authentic recreation based of the ball at Netherfield, a turning point in the romance between Elizabeth Bennett and Mr Darcy.  Oh, please please!  Someone invite me!

KaleKale Comes To Paris: An American woman, Kristin Beddard, recently launched a movement to bring what  is often deemed the healthiest veggie in the world to her adoptive hometown, where it seems some Parisians believe that kale grows on trees.

Get Your Shit Together: The brainchild of Chanel Reynolds who lost her husband suddenly, the Get Your Shit Together website makes it easy to put your life, your data, your commitments, and your finances in one easy organized online place. I know I’m inspired. Just do it!

chocolatesmallHome Made Chocolate Bars: One of my favorite chefs, David Lebovitz, has posted a tutorial on his blog for making simple, delicious chocolate bars at home. And also Chocolate-Covered Salted Peanut Caramel Cups!

Urban Hay Hooks: Erik at Root Simple asks, “Are hay hooks the new urban hipster accessory?

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The Tribe of Teenager

January 14th, 2013

The other day Tom and I were on our way to pick Claire and her friend up from the local movie theater, where they’d seen “The Perks of Being a Wallflower.” uggs We must have been 30 seconds late, because my phone dinged with a text:  Where r u?!  As we approached we spotted them standing in front of the theater, but it wasn’t until we pulled right up to the curb and were about to yell out the window for them to hop in that we realized, “That’s not Claire and Helen!”  It was two other 14-ish year old girls wearing black leggings, Ugg boots, hooded jackets, upswept ponytails, and holding phones.

Desmond Morris was a renowned animal ethologist for decades before turning to humans as his subject, and publishing The Naked Ape in 1967 (inspiration for a 1980s PBS series).  In his extensive study of human behavior, Morris explores the many biological activities that humans share with animals, including:  sex; the rearing of young; exploration and migration; finding food; the formation of groups, flocks and tribes; and the seeking of comfort.  Morris is intrigued by the ways these biological behaviors have shaped themselves to fit the parameters of modern human population centers, urban places, and technological interface. I was fascinated by his thoughts on the need for humans, and humans that are coming-of-age in particular, to conform to a group through clothing, jewelry, and even mode of communication.

When my independent-minded, free-spirited young daughter became a teenager, suddenly concerned with wearing the exact same clothes as everyone else and talking to her friends primarily via text-message, I felt like a failure.  Naomi Klein’s No Logo is coffee table reading in this house, and now my kid only wants to shop at Hollister.  Where did I go wrong?  Morris’s work re-frames this:  no, she’s not a mindless conformist zombie automaton.  She’s seeking–and finding–group identity, as humans her age have always done, through the culturally recognized adornments of the day.

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Working to change the culture and construct more meaningful identifiers than those desirable by Claire’s peer group over time is an essential goal; but in the meantime, foisting my hippie ways on a teenager who has to go school every day might actually run counter to her positive psycho-biological development.  A positive feeling of peer security and belonging at this difficult age sets the stage for creative/artistic individuation in the later teenage years, and into adulthood.  Does this mean that I buy her every little conformist tidbit she thinks she wants?  Yeah, uh, no. But I do think more compassionately about what these things mean for kids her age.

For more on creating meaningful cultural identities from birth to death, I highly recommend Bill Plotkin’s Nature and the Human Soul.  

[Apologies to all the commenters on this post:  we had a techno-glitch, and your comments were lost.]

 

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Friday Links: Alcoholic Monkeys, Swedish Candles, and Procrastination

January 10th, 2013

anne_of_green_gablesPublic Domain Class of 2013 The works of these authors go into the public domain this year across the European Union, Russia, Brazil, Israel, and other places with a sensible author’s life + 70 years copyright policy (not the USA…). Lucy Maude Montgomery!

Get Up And Move About The Cabin “Research published in separate medical journals this month adds to a growing scientific consensus that the more time someone spends sitting, especially in front of the television, the shorter and less robust his or her life may be.” – NY Times

vervetAlcoholic Monkeys These vervet monkeys in St Kitts have developed a taste for liquor (YouTube). Sneaky monkeys! (Tom reminded me that we had seen the same behavior by vervet monkeys in coastal Kenya, and have this photo to prove it.)

Authors Typing I love this Pinterest board of photos of authors and their typewriters.

Home Composting The NY Times devotes a large number of column inches to a funny article on home composters.

Swedish Candle Learn how to make one here, with a section of log and a chainsaw. Our friend Don introduced us to these. They make a great, self-contained bonfire, and you can even cook in a skillet or pot on top!

Swedish Candle

And just in time for the new year: The science of procrastination, and how to overcome it.

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On Planners, Productivity, and Idle Pleasures

January 7th, 2013

Happy New Year, everyone!  Here is my first confession of 2013:  I’m a planner geek-nerd-obsessive.  I love the tactile and aesthetic delights of a paper planner, as well as the practical benefits. Opening a new planner on January 1 is something I start looking forward to weeks before the calendar page actually flips.  I absolutely agree with Daven Allen (productivity guru and author of Getting Things Done, or “GTD” to his many disciples), who believes that if we are always trying to remember what we have to do (or want to do), and when we need to do it, then our brain will never be free to tend its higher purposes:  creative work, art, serenity.

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For me, planning is not about “productivity” in the material sphere:  working more to make more money, to “get ahead,” or get more stuff.   It’s about making sure my precious days reflect my life priorities.  In addition to doing good professional work (writing, speaking, teaching), I also want to keep a harmonious household, and have time to focus on my family.

to doBeyond that, there are the “idle pleasures” that make us whole people.  For me, these include knitting and sewing, learning French, practicing violin, studying birds, and walking aimlessly through the woods.  A good planning system keeps me from frittering my days away mindlessly, and gives me a kind of creative productivity that allows more freedom and joy in my days.

For years, I’ve been pretty much in love with my Franklin-Covey planner, and after so much use the green leather binder that houses the planning pages has become worn and inviting. So for me it’s kind of a big deal that this year I’ve decided to “date other planners,” and am trying the Planner Pad, recommended to me by Waverly Fitzgerald, author of the meditative book, Slow Time:  Recovering the Natural Rhythm of Life (which I reviewed here).

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Sorry, Planner Pad people–I covered the logo on the front of the pad with this sticker from the good folks at Microcosm.

The Planner Pad breaks through the simple linearity of most calendars.  You can find out all about it on their website, but essentially it works like this:  Each week appears on a two page spread.  The top third of these pages is divided into seven columns that you label as you choose–each column representing a particular project, role, goal, or theme in your life.  These can change week to week, as needed.

Possible labels I might use include:  Current Book Project, Tangled Nest, Speaking/Teaching, Household/Family, Meal Planning, Garden, Radiant Health, Craft/DIY, Personal, and perhaps a column for Dreams/Wild Imaginings (even hardcore GTD-ers have such a category, which they label “Someday/Maybe”).  I suppose “Other” would also be a useful category.

In each column, you record the most important things you want to accomplish, or anything else you want to remember to think about regarding that theme.  In the middle third of the pages, the columns are labeled Monday through Sunday, and in the blank lines underneath, you create your daily to-dos, drawn from the intentions written above.  The bottom third is for specific appointments and time-based scheduling.

This all seems more organic to me than a typical planner, and full of possibility for focusing more clearly on priorities, dreams, and intentions, rather than becoming lost in daily to-do lists.  There are also full-page month views, planning calendars for the coming three years, and plenty of blank pages for notes (these I’ve index-tabbed, and use for things like lists of books I want to read, films I want to see, gift ideas for friends and family, quotes and words I’d like to use in my writing, and a record of birds seen in my yard).

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The Planner Pad ain’t pretty.  It comes in a rather clinical black or green, with a plain, executive look. In an attempt at aesthetics, they created a colorful “Seasons” version, which isn’t at all to my taste.  Even so, I find that with my colored inks, my post-it notes-to-self, and the images I always tape into my planner, this notebook is already starting to look quite Lyanda-ish.

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I love handwritten missives, and always carry cards and stamps in the front pocket of my planners, so I can write a postcard or thank you in spare moments.

Poet Mary Oliver asks, “Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”  What tools do you use in seeking an answer to this question?  As a planner nerd, I’d love to hear about them.

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Happy Solstice (and End of the World)

December 20th, 2012

Happy Solstice, dear readers!  Assuming the world doesn’t end today (or even if it does) I wish you all a peaceful, joyful season.

On the Summer Solstice (also our wedding anniversary) a couple of years ago, Tom, Claire, and I set out to climb the highest temple in the Mayan ruins at Tikal before sunrise.  We sat hushed above the silent jungle canopy, as the birds and animals slowly came to life with the growing light.

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Dusk photo of Temple of the Jaguar at Tikal, taken by Tom when we were there on June 21, 2010.

I love this dark winter season, and the promise of light the Solstice brings (something we cling to here in Seattle, where darkness settles at about 4 p.m. these days–we are getting two more hours of darkness than our friends in L.A.!).  Solstices have long been a time for celebrating the connection and balance between light and dark, heaven and earth, inner and outer.

In this bustling time of year, “outer” takes care of itself.  In an effort to tend the “inner,” I’ll be leaving technology behind for a few days.  Maybe some of you will join me in letting go of unessential screen time, Facebook, and the blogosphere for a short while, in hopes of entering more wholly this season of darkness-into-light.  The Tangled Nest will resume after Epiphany, January 6.

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Friday Links: Gingerbread Brownstones, Dangerous Dancing, and Ancient Trees

December 14th, 2012

Cinema Bookstore: El Ateneo Grand Splendid in Buenos Aires is one of the most dramatic bookstores in the world, because the space was converted from an ornate cinema.

Natural Playgrounds: In Canada, some cities are building “natural playgrounds” that swap swings, slides and monkey bars for boulders, grassy hills and trees.

GingerbreadCosta Rica Bans Hunting: Our progressive Central American neighbors have become the first Latin American country to ban hunting for sport.

An Entire NY Block Out Of Gingerbread: Chef Renee Bauman and her friends have made an entire NYC block out of gingerbread, as a fundraiser for City Harvest.

Ladies of Manure: Need a 2013 calendar? Got a progressive attitude about night soil? Then look no further than the Ladies of Manure, a Kickstarter that will end on Sunday. (Via Root Simple)

Ladies of Poop

The Dangers of Gangnam Style: It’s the dance craze that has swept the nation – and our house, unfortunately, so I should probably warn Tom that Gangnam Style can be fatal to middle-aged men.

 

Earth’s oldest trees: Designer Michael Paukner has posted this great infographic of earth’s oldest tress.

Worlds Oldest Trees

You can read about (and see photos of) several of the individual trees in this article from the incredible Brain Pickings blog.

Old tree

Have a wonderful weekend!

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Infographic: How To Build Our Backyard Chicken Coop

December 12th, 2012

I am flattered that the author of a new chicken book called Henhouse has turned my humble coop-building instructions into this amazing infographic and posted it on Visual.ly. This is a slightly simplified version of our coop, with no “chicken Guantanamo” cage underneath, or aviary around it. But after many years of use, this design has served us well and we still heartily endorse it for urban backyards.

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Wonderful coop-building infographic by Timothy Sanders. Click to enlarge.

My coop-plans blog post remains very popular– if you have built this coop, or a version of it, I would love to see photos!

 

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Homemade Ornaments: Pinecone Gnomes

December 9th, 2012

Homemade Gnome OrnamentI love making ornaments from found, natural materials. Cat-sitting for my crafty neighbor Jane last week, I spotted these little gnome ornaments she had made from the pinecones that fall on our neighborhood sidewalks, and asked if I could share them on The Tangled Nest.

Jane’s gnomes were inspired by this this Better Homes and Garden project.  But per usual for Jane, she made charming improvements to the basic instructions, adding eyes made with a fine sharpie, and rosy cheeks made from watered down craft paint.  She also added bells to the hat, and used a chennile ball for the nose, rather than the wooden ball you’ll find recommended in the magazine article, and wool felt for the scarves rather than pipe cleaners.

Pine Cone Gnome MaterialsFor Jane’s gnomes, you’ll need:

  • Colored wool felt
  • 1 inch diameter wooden balls for the head
  •  1-1/2- to 2-inch-long pinecones
  • Wool roving: light gray and/or curly white wool
  • Hot-glue gun and glue sticks
  • Embroidery needle and contrasting thread
  • Thread for hanging, and optional tiny bells

Gnome Hat SeamInstructions:

  1. For the hats, cut wool triangles 3 3/4 inches on each side; fold in half, and blanket stitch together.
  2. For the scarves, cut 1/2 x 6 inch felt strips, and fringe the ends.
  3. Hot glue the wooden ball to the flat end of the pinecone.  Turn up the bottom of each hat, fill with a little roving if you like, and hot glue to the top of the wooden ball head.  Add chennille ball nose, and eyes and cheeks if you like.
  4. Sew a loop of decorative braid or thread and a bell to the top.

This project is earthy enough for Waldorf folk, and simple enough for children to join in.  Here is Jane’s daughter Sadie with the gnome she made herself:

Pine Cone Gnome
For more handmade-ornament inspiration (including more ornaments made from neighborhood pinecones), see my post Six Simple Homemade Ornaments You Can Make.

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Friday Links: Holiday Craft Projects

December 7th, 2012

Drawstrong bagI’ve written before on this blog about simple gifts and “The Sanctity of Giving.”  I love gifts, and I don’t believe opting out of holiday commercialism has to mean a moratorium on giving.  This week I’m sharing a few suggestions from the Tangled Nest archives: craft projects that can bring a handmade simplicity to your holiday gift-giving. There is definitely still time to make anything listed below.  It’s a curious paradox–when I’m super-busy, pausing to create something by hand makes me feel calmer instead of busier.

(And when there just isn’t time for homemade, take a look at my 2011 holiday gift guide).

What are you making as gifts this holiday season?

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Three Ways to Keep the Peace of the Season

December 3rd, 2012

Every year we see articles on “staying sane during the holidays”–advice for dealing with unruly inlaws while maximizing cookie production and shopping efficiency.  I follow some of this advice.  But here’s a confession:  I love the inner dimension of this season.  I love advent, the dark days leading to the Solstice and Christmas, and I take this time seriously as a period of simplicity, waiting, expectation, and inward reflection.  And though December is often the busiest month of my year, I never compromise on my simple practices for keeping peace in this season. Here’s what I do:

1.  I get up early, in the darkness of morning, every day during advent.  In this quiet hour before my sweeties stir in their beds upstairs, I light a candle, maybe turn on a string of twinkle lights, and spend a few minutes enjoying the stillness.  (Before coffee?  Of course not!!  But I get the french press ready the night before so I don’t have to think much about it when I get up).  I might play some soft medieval carols (my favorite seasonal music, which Tom and Claire do not care for–this is my chance to enjoy them without hassle). During this hushed hour I may read a little (see #2), write in my diary, or just spend some time in meditation.  Yes, I am a morning person.  If you’re not, this practice would be equally beautiful in the silence of late night, after your household is asleep.

2.  I choose a book for contemplative reading for the season.  This year I am re-reading A Child in Winter, a selection of advent writings by Caryll Houselander, the English laywoman, mystic, and poet, who was writing in the middle of the last century.  I love her challenging spirituality, grounded in ordinary life, but I know her Catholic language is overly-religous for some.  Seasonal reading can be anything that makes you feel calm, and whole.  I have worked with Emily Dickinson during previous advents, or Thich Nhat Hanh.

3.  I spend extra time observing my neighborhood birds.  Anyone who reads my work knows that I watch birds all the time anyway, so this might not really seem like a particular advent practice, but I find my attitude shifts during this season.  I’ll walk along the beach and watch the winter seabirds on the Salish Sea–goldeneys, horned grebes, harlequin ducks.  All of them tossing on the gray water, their bodies quiet no matter how rushed the waves.  Or just the chickadees and juncos outside my window, feathers ruffling in the chilly breeze.  Amidst all the ads and the frenzy and the cooking and the making and the singing, here are these creatures that have nothing to do with any of this, tending their day, their simple needs for food and warmth. We live alongside each other, in the same dark, expectant season, and watching them I feel a renewed confidence in my own indwelling peace.

Yes, I am also making cookies, and fantasizing that I’ll still get a few more homemade gifts finished, and decking the halls, and taking our daughter back and forth to her holiday recitals, and trying in the middle of it all to finish my next book.  I love all of this, and will be passing on some of my favorite recipes and projects here at the Tangled Nest in the next couple of weeks.   But my simple advent practices help to keep me calm and joyful (mostly) in the whirl of activity.

How do you keep the peace of the season?  We’d love to hear your own practices.

(Thanks to Flickr user KimCarpenter NJ for the lovely photo.)

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